Posted in Health, Homemaking, Inspiring

Cabin Fever and Its Cure

Stuck.

Many people have been stuck inside all day for many days.

Many people and their children have been stuck  inside all day for many days.

Results?

CABIN FEVER

too bored to moveThe symptoms can look like a dread disease and fool even the wisest of moms:

  • Lethargy
  • Depression
  • Loss of appetite

It’s enough to make a mom lay a hand on the forehead or neck of a child and check for fever, but in the case of cabin fever, there is no fever.

I know.

That’s because the cause is not a germ or virus, but just a lack of exercise, whether physical or mental or spiritual.

However, there is a cure. Yay!

So here’s how you cure spirit, mind, and body:

Be thankful. You can make it fun:

  • Make a box with a slot in the top and decorate it. Write things you are thankful for in the box, all day long, or as a ritual every morning, and slip them into the box. OR
  • Write your “thankful things” on long strips of brightly-colored paper and use the strips to make a paper chain you hang all around your living room.
  • Hide little prizes (wrapped cookie, quarter, or small toy such as a ball, nail decal sheet, etc.) in messy places and teach them to clean the place a bit and find the prizes, for which they then say, “I’m so thankful I cleaned under my bed (in the toy box, on the shelf, in the dresser drawer, etc.) because I found this prize! Thanks, Mom!”

paper snowflakesPlay games. Games can be themed on the snow days:

  • Have a picnic in the hot sun. Place a blanket and sun umbrella on the floor and turn on many lights, even a heat lamp or sun lamp, if you have them (be careful!), and even use a fan for a slight breeze. Play sunshiny music. Fix regular picnic food, whatever that means for you all. Have a picnic!
  • Cut out really huge paper snowflakes by folding shiny wrapping paper into a six-sided wedge shape (you know, as for doilies, tutorial links below) and cutting out large chunks of it to leave a lacy snowflake design when unfolded. Or do small ones as in this photo, and pin to sheer curtains or tape to windows, etc.
  • Build marshmallow snowmen using peanut butter for glue. Build marshmallow snow forts. Have marshmallow-blowing contests across the top of the kitchen table, etc.

Exercise. Good mental and emotional health depends on good bodily health and exercise is often the missing ingredient when children are cooped up and acting “feverish”. You’ll have to lead a bit more in this one, but:

  • Flip through all the ring tones available on your cell phone and dance or march to the music.
  • Race each other at cleaning a personal space with a prize to the winner. This rewards those who keep the personal spaces tidy to begin with.
  • Rearrange the house. Make them help. Try moving the couch or the bed to another side or in the middle. Also discuss why you like or don’t like the changes. Rearrange it back if you don’t like it.

Pretend. If you have lights and water, etc., try pretending you don’t. This will REALLY lengthen your paper chain, above. Pretend you have to:

  • Use a candle or flashlight in every dark place; don’t turn on the lights when it gets dark, just for one evening.
  • Heat water for washing dishes on the stove and wash them by hand, for one day.
  • Carry water from an outdoor spigot to flush the toilet, for a day. The rules are: after you use the toilet, you have to fetch a bucket of water for the next person. No excuses.

Last, but not least, get some sun and fresh air. Require they go outdoors at least for fifteen minutes and expose face and hands to the sun. It will do wonders. Explain how they need the sun on their skin to feel healthy and how much this will help with their sluggish feelings.  Then prepare to be amazed.

Okay. I hope I got your day going. Just think: Spring is right around the corner. Yay!

 

What do you get for home schooling?

  1. English: Human Rights logo: "FREE AS A MA...
    Human Rights logo: “FREE AS A MAN” (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

    You get your children removed from the home at gunpoint and placed in foster care.

  2. You get permission to leave the country denied.
  3. You get your children placed, against your will, in a public school.
  4. You get threatened with jail and permanent removal of your children from your care, if you do anything about it.

IN GERMANY

Sound familiar?

“The Universal Declaration of Human Rights was drafted in direct response to what happened in Nazi Germany. It recognizes that parents have a prior right over the government to decide how children are educated. That’s because German Nazis took over the country’s educational system and used it as a weapon of social dominion.”

GERMANY…

…Whose former home schools gave us:

Germany, who also gave us Hitler, has decided she likes her Hitler best. Again.

New Path to Home Schooling!

English: Great Wall of China
Great Wall of China (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Look who is following along the home school trail!

Quite a story!

So, after you follow this link, come back and tell me this:

If any of these new homeschooling citizens run afoul of their government,

and turn to the US for assistance,

will THEY be ostracized, here, as the German families have been?

Hmm?

 

 

Posted in Connect, Home School, Pre-schoolers, Wisdom

Does your toddler know enough? Do you know how to tell?

Toddler vaccuum

“Most of the answers left me not only saddened, but pretty soundly annoyed. One mom posted a laundry list of all of the things her son knew. Counting to 100, planets, how to write his first and last name and on and on. Others chimed in with how much more their children already knew, some who were only 3. A few posted URL’s to lists of what each age should know. The fewest yet said that each child develops at his own pace and not to worry.”

So began a tale that ends much more peacefully, and begins here. Read and enjoy.

A toddler in a ball pit.
A toddler in a ball pit. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Posted in Home School, Homemaking, Womanhood

You can never go home.

The Prescott Family Home
The Prescott Family Home (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I posted two fun posts awhile back, here and here, but they always bothered me. I think maybe I allowed the posts to get off the point. Perhaps I even mistakenly pointed it in the wrong direction.

I wrote about motherhood, about whether we do anything or not, about pay, about respect, and tried to do so in a humorous way.

From this distance, though, I am beginning to think a tiny bit differently, and that tiny shift can make a big difference.

The whole topic is not about motherhood, as we joked. It is not about pay or even about volunteerism. I have just realized it is not even about work.

If I confused anyone, I am sorry. Pretty sure it was my fault.

So What’s It About?

It is about WHERE we work.

Those who loaf at a polished desk are counted in the work force if that polished desk is not at home.

Those who stay actively busy for 20 out of 24 hours, producing, advancing society, trying to improve life for everyone they touch, are not counted in the work force, if they do all this at home.

This is really, truly, about the destruction and devaluation of the home, and, guilty by association, the stay-at-home woman.

Go home. If you do, you will finally grasp what life is all about.

Posted in Blessings of Habit, Home School, Pre-schoolers, Who's the mom here?

A Big How-To…

"The mother"
“The mother” (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A sweet mom has asked how to know if she is doing well when her toddler acts up and is rowdy and loud in public, far worse than in the home. Should she even THINK of homeschooling if this is the best she can do?

Here is my answer. You can add to it in the comments, if you like. Two heads are better than one, right?

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Wow. I love your honesty! You definitely will make it through this if you keep on being honest with yourself. Good job. And being quiet is SUCH a good goal for the child. It has saved many a family during Gestapo raids.

The answer is manifold. Let’s ask a few questions to narrow in down, okay?

First, is he a sick-o?

Be sure your two-year-old is physically able to do what you desire.

How?

Take care of his health, for one thing. If he is full of sugar and artificial ingredients, you are asking the impossible. If he is not getting enough sleep, who wouldn’t act up under his circumstances? Is he hungry? Is he teething? Does he have a cold?

Any time your physical well-being would normally tempt you to be grumpy and non-compliant, you can figure a “two” will give in to such temptation.

Think of baby Moses. Scripture tells us, “The babe wept.” What does it say about the unregenerate princess who fished him out? “She had compassion on him.” That’s what their little meltdowns are for–to cause us to take notice when they have a trouble they cannot communicate with words. (Read Exodus 2.)

It is only natural for an untrained child to act up. That’s why God gave them parents. And yes, it is your job, not that of the state. Of course, eventually you do not want him acting like a two-year-old. Eventually, say, when he is 10, you expect him to communicate his sore throat or headache or hunger pangs, but when they are two, their showing out can be life saving.

Second, have you taught him he should act wrong?

We have had a couple or little ones who were more fidgety. It really showed up in church. We always made our children stay with us during the sermon. It is a wonderful chance for the parents to teach the children to sit still and be quiet. We would let them draw or color, have a Cheerio or two now and then, fold up the bulletin, change laps from Mom to Dad occasionally, “read” the hymnal, play quietly with quiet toys, or sleep. Not much else.

If they balked or fussed, we took them out for a moment to adjust attitude, then brought them right back in and expected improvement.

People thought we were cruel, at first, keeping them out of the nursery and children’s church (although we KNOW that’s where all our colds come from) but later they saw the fruit and praised us. It was not cruelty, anyway, not with Cheerios, paper and pencil, toys, hugs, a lap to sleep on, etc. No, it was loving, caring teaching.

We don’t believe in children’s church, by the way, because it divides families during the most important time of the week.

Are you asking him to pass the test before he takes the course?

You can do most of the teaching at home. You can have a fun game called “practice being quiet”. Set it up however you think would work, and set a timer for a short, short time–like 15 seconds–then practice.

Make it fun. It can include rice “sand” play, coloring, play dough, or any other quiet activity.

Reward him with something you don’t mind him having, and that he likes a lot, such as apple chunks or pretzels or whatever suits your idea of acceptable dietary stuff. Also reward with praise and with telling him how proud Gramma or Daddy will be he is learning to sit quietly. Make it normal and fun, with toys, or whatever, but REQUIRE QUIET SITTING. If he fails, you can start the timer over a bit later, or just let him know you’re disappointed and try again later in the day. Do this daily or even twice daily. Gradually lengthen the time until you can tell him to sit quietly for a while with a timer going, like 30 minutes, with plenty of quiet things to do, and it works.

I got this idea from a book called Train Up a Child and another called Toilet Training in Less than a Day . I strongly recommend these books.

So, why do P.S. kids do “better”?

The reason public schooled children can sit and be quiet is the teachers practice “crowd control”, which is a wicked form of manipulation. No kidding, they learn how to make robots out of children in college, I guess. It is the NEA’s preparation for controlling them all their lives, for taking over the world and being the ones at the top, they think.

It will not work, actually demonstratively is not working, and has not worked in the past, but they think this time they will be different and actually succeed. That’s why they fight home schooling.

I know this sounds like the paranoid rantings of a madwoman, but they have written it in their manifesto and each year, they renew the manifesto and that part always remains, grows, and worsens.

We train our children to be individuals–not robots–to respond to proper authority, which the P.S. is not. Peer pressure at that age is astounding, and it is not our goal, with our children.

Believe me. Those kids know they are being watched and assessed, they know their futures are already being formed, and they know if the government likes them, they’ll succeed, and if not, not. Mere kindergarteners have police records for smacking someone on the playground.

Not. Our. Goal.

Are we missing the whole picture?

A homeschooled child may be acting up, especially if Mom is there alongside, say, a museum curator, because he is confused about who is in authority at that time.

The public schooled kids, on the other hand, have no doubt–when it’s a decision between mom and teacher, the teacher definitely has all authority, hands down.

Don’t take your child there.

So, do you have the time? Will you give up the time?

It takes a lifetime.

You will never feel “done” perfecting this precious child for God, but eventually you will have to let go and let him stand on his own, like when he is in college, or sometime like that. So make the best of it, while you can.

There is no trick that will make a child suddenly be good forever. It is daily, hourly. It can be tiresome, discouraging, and intimidating.

I think of it as a taste of how our Heavenly Father must feel exasperated at me.

Welcome to motherhood!

Some days it can seem like the enemy is winning. Some of the worst days will be when he is getting sick, and will make you feel like a mean mom for correcting him when he had a fever, or something else you did not know about until later.

Some days, though, people will marvel at what he knows about God.

Take him there.

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So, what do y’all think? Any additions? Add them below, please!