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Our Rewarder God

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Everyone who comes to God must believe these two things:

  1. That He exists
  2. That He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

This is truth, according to His Word, which is what we must accept if we accept that He is there to deny, to hate, to dispute, to blame, to doubt, to question, to quote, to copy, to seek, to find, or to acknowledge.

Another truth: all God-haters must admit He exists or their whole life-work has been wasted, right? Same for blamers, questioners, etc. They just miss, entirely, the BENEFITS of His existence, because they do not, also, believe that He rewards, and would joyfully reward THEM.

But He does. He would.

So, it is mandatory to reward our children; we must raise them up in the discipline of the Lord. Reward is one way He disciplines us.

“What?!” you say. “I thought discipline meant things like time-out or skipping dessert!”

While unpleasant consequences are, indeed, a valid part of discipline, God’s Word also shows us that He adds rewards to His method of discipline, which He has commanded us to use.

Why do we fear rewards? I have heard parents say, “I refuse to bribe my children to do right.”

Again, we show our ignorance, because, according to the Word of Him Who requires we do right, bribery—rewarding to do WRONG—is wrong, and rewarding to do right is right.

God’s discipline also includes praise. Consider this: “Well done, thou good and faithful servant . . . ” Or: “This is My Beloved Son, in Whom I AM well pleased . . . “ We cannot deny that He does praise us, also.

So we should praise our own. This is truth.

There is one facet of all this truth that escapes notice, though.


His Word says, “Humble yourself, therefore, under the mighty hand of God and He will exalt you in due time.”

His Word says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

As one of His most famous followers said, “He must increase; I must decrease,” and “I am not worthy even to untie His shoe . . .”

We sometimes hear someone who has received great praise saying something like, “Oh, you are setting me up for a fall!” referring to the Scripture that reads, “Pride goeth before a fall . . . “

Still we should praise and reward good jobs, wherever we see them, and especially in our children’s lives. Missing this facet of childhood has caused many adults to grow up warped, never praised, never rewarded, and also never pitied and probably never sent to the corner or switched when they needed that. Undisciplined, they grow up with no self-discipline and probably no healthy concept of God, either, since we learn those from our parents.

Many adults fail to praise or reward other adults, though, and a job well done can make a hurting person jealous. People raised wrong envy beauty, industry, discipline, etc., and often grow snarky instead of praising. We just have to forgive them.

However, it is God, not people, Who watches our ways to give us joy. Humans will praise and reward us, if that is God’s chosen pathway for our praise and rewards to come, but only in due time. He may, though, choose to use His audible voice, instead! Or, our rewards may mostly come in the next life.

But we don’t care. It is a joy to wait upon the Lord. So we patiently seek out His will and try hard to do right, for the joy of pleasing Him, and we humbly wait for that due time, when He will, most assuredly, reward us. Because He IS a rewarder.

And for the snarky-jealous? Maybe we should find some way to give them a bit of the praise they never got during childhood?


Katharine is a writer, speaker, women's counselor, and professional mom. Happily married over 50 years to the same gorgeous guy. She loves cooking amazing homegrown food, celebrating grandbabies, her golden-egg-laying hennies, and watching old movies with popcorn. Her writing appears at Medium, Arkansas Women Bloggers, Contently, The Testimony Train, Taste Arkansas, Only in Arkansas, and in several professional magazines and one anthology.

10 thoughts on “Our Rewarder God

  1. I’m glad you took the time to write this! Too many times, people see God as someone who we have to fear (and we do that too, respectfully). But it seems that they think He is just waiting for them to mess up so He can judge them (as if judgment is the best part of His day, or something). But He’s not like that at all! The reason that He judges is to help others see that He is the Lord. He wants them to get to know Him, to love Him. Some just refuse to look in His direction at all though, unless their lives are turned upside down. I love to love Him, and to enjoy His many wonderful blessings!

    1. Thanks so much for this comment, Amy! Yes, God must stop us, sometimes, before we do any more damage, mustn’t He! But even His judgments are a blessing, although we are sometimes too foolish to realize it. And, yes, if only others would try out the blessings, they would learn so much more about His ways!

  2. The bit about “He must increase, I must decrease” reminds me of the praise song “None of Self”–I love that one!

    Thank you for this post. You are so right, that praise is a huge part of discipline. If you only ever tell someone the things they do wrong, they still may not know how to do right!

    1. Oh, I almost missed this comment! So sorry!
      It’s great to have you back, Victoria! And I love your take on this, that if we don’t praise,then we only show what is wrong and never leave a clue about what is right. So true! Thanks! 🙂

  3. People think of discipline as a negative. I am glad you have brought some of the positive aspects. Another thing to remember about discipline is he does it for our own good. We too need to discipline our children for their own good. Certainly if we fail to discipline them, either the correcting or the rewarding, we do them much harm.

    1. Good point, Aldaraan, and welcome to the site! I am glad you said this.
      Often we think of the negative aspects as negatives, but they really are positives.
      They are positively good for us! Also positively dealt out with loving care, at least in the case of the loving Heavenly Father.
      Thanks for bringing this up, and stop by any time! 🙂

  4. We shall mount up with wings as eagles…we shall run and not be weary…teach me Lord, teach me Lord, to wait. And you are right, discipline is essential. It is part of the ballet of life—the stretching, the plies, we cannot get on our toes and dance without discipline. We cannot can the fruit without a whole lot of heat and just the right amount of patient waiting! 😉

    1. Oh, dear. You’ve seen the relation between life and the pressure cooker! Sort of un-“canny” isn’t it! Thanks for stopping by, Kate! Great comparison with ballet, sort of like Paul’s comparison with running. I never did ballet, although I always did want to, but I did do running, was fast, once upon a time, loved a good, fast sprint, and still do, although I am no longer fast. 😉

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